tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-919332964942318171.post6775023212377898200..comments2023-10-15T11:23:22.338-04:00Comments on The Logical Mommy: Review/Rebuttal: "Does Breastfeeding Cause Divorce?"Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger6125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-919332964942318171.post-79527973175095090662016-03-01T06:31:54.527-05:002016-03-01T06:31:54.527-05:00problems. Complications | Woman's Passions
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I read the article first and was shocked an appalled that this woman really felt the way she did.<br /><br />My adult whole life (how ever long that is when you're only 21) the only thing I have ever heard from journals and medical experts is that breast feeding is one of the most important things a recent mother can do to ensure the health of her child.<br /><br />Now, I disagreed with the author from the title, but was interested in what arguments and/or statistics she would produce to back up her claim. I have to agree with Alina that the author is coming from a very narcissistic perspective and would do a better service by suggesting woman who are like minded to really consider whether or not children are for them rather than write that two faced article about how breast feeding is dangerous to martial stability, yet set aside a few sentences to praise her own experience with it.<br /><br />Excellent rebuttal Logical Mommy!Stevehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17256256813633107930noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-919332964942318171.post-90511130906678476082010-07-05T15:47:08.878-04:002010-07-05T15:47:08.878-04:00I can't believe she is not rereading this arti...I can't believe she is not rereading this article in a more rationale moment and thinking, "wow, I can't believe I wrote that." And I can't believe someone actually published it as anything besides a misguided op-ed. <br /><br />Breastfeeding doesn't cause divorce. Marrying the wrond person, and not communicating with your spouse causes divorce. Not working on marriage and not compromising and working as a team, that causes divorce. <br /><br />Not understanding that having a baby is about soooo much more than this thing to "love you" will cause divorce. Not being on the same page about parenting will cause divorce. Breastfeeding will not cause any more divorce than formula feeding. <br /><br />And this is from a mother who formula fed her baby. Mothering is an absolute and total commitment. And you are right. You don't get your body back if you are a good mother. Because your lips are there for kissing booboos, your arms are there for hugging, your legs are there for climbing, your fingers are there for counting, your voice is for reading stories, and a hundred other parts of you are generally there for exploration. And you love every minute of it. <br /><br />The only thing this article showed me, is that this woman should not have become a mother, and I am a little sad for her child. <br /><br />Logicalmommy, u are right on, in your assessment of this article. -----otdinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10372342236233184206noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-919332964942318171.post-4293549557353325882010-07-05T10:13:22.155-04:002010-07-05T10:13:22.155-04:00I'll go with that, that finding a place to pum...I'll go with that, that finding a place to pump when things are already darned hard is a real challenge...but I don't think that the author is ONLY talking about places to pump, and she is saying that trying to improve situations such as a lack of pumping spaces is a waste of time because emphasizing breastfeeding is so oppressive. <br /><br />With more breastfeeding support from employers, who understand that healthier babies mean less sick time, more women COULD be spared that extra hardship, should they choose to return to work.Mollyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13774558034963099447noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-919332964942318171.post-26067025153109011232010-07-05T09:46:21.144-04:002010-07-05T09:46:21.144-04:00I don't think it's outrageous to think tha...I don't think it's outrageous to think that for some women, the extra burden of, say, finding time and space to pump during the day after going back to work is the final straw in making new-parenthood intolerable. I believe that having happy, healthy parents is more important for most kids than the details of what they eat or wear - formula or commercial baby food or disposal diapers are preferable under some circumstances to having (even more) stressed out and exhausted parent(s).eKatiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16373367950937808774noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-919332964942318171.post-42046306655714578852010-07-04T21:03:59.848-04:002010-07-04T21:03:59.848-04:00This poor woman... I feel bad for her. The articl...This poor woman... I feel bad for her. The article is written from the narcissistic perspective she mentions, where these are her own feelings of guilt, fear and resentment, which she projects 'out there' in case other people feel the same way. She obviously is embarassed to have breastfed, had her marriage threatened by her nursing relationships, and perceives her babies as a burden, not a joy. I firmly believe there are VERY FEW, if any, women who find themselves in this article. How sad.Alinahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16061135092400475979noreply@blogger.com